Well i am looking for a friend first and foremost and if something develops wow what a bonus i would consider myself lucky again and i hope this will be the last. We don't really have much time to find our soulmate (the one person we ever meant to love forever) as life is so short and shorter for some. So i prefer to stay on my own than compromise, but friendships are nice. The kind of man i would like is the kind every woman dreams of in the secret most deepest reaches of her heart. You see there is nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who really loves her. Honesty is huge, integrity, loyalty but is anyone perfect certainly not , Some people don't understand (most of us however) that we are like flowers that need to be watered or we will die( thus so will the relationship). To sum i guess you get what you put in most of the time. Does it matter how we met or where we met as long as we did. Hope to find my buddy, someone to hangout with,tease, have pizza with, talk about the weather,play fight ,see a future with.... Someone who will listen (sometimes) and someone i cannot wait to tell my lot to at the end of a day. Someone to love i guess these would just be perfect.